CONTACT ME

I love reading personal email. Unfortunately I don't always get to respond to emails in a timely or lengthy manner. I respond to technical questions from members and questions about membership asap; it often take me a bit longer to respond to other emails.

The more I like your email, the longer it may take me to respond as I want to do a good job of it. This could take days, weeks, or even months ;-). I put all of the email I want/need to respond to in a folder labeled "RESPOND" and try to set aside special time to focus on thoughtfully replying to email, but I am often too afraid to open that folder and tackle the many emails waiting there for me!

Make sure you approve my email address so it doesn't get sorted into your junk mail folder.

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The absolute BEST chance you'll have to engage me in conversation is found by joining me and other guests in my members-only spycam chatroom during one of my scheduled or spontaneous chat sessions. I schedule hours of "stuff" each week and look forward to getting to know my members in these chat sessions. They usually aren't "shows" and I do not take requests during these sessions, I just hang out and chat with you like a regular person.

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These suggestions are specifically written for people
who'd enjoy individual attention from me.

1. Tell me where you found me and why you're contacting me.
If you initiate conversation with me, let me know how you found me (this will help me get to know a bit about your interests) and what you want.

Ex. 1 "Hi Trixie! I found your site when doing a search on google for phone sex cocksucking and wondered if you have time for a phone session with me. I'd like you to dominate me and force me to suck your boyfriend's cock. Are you available for phone?"

Ex. 2 "Hi Trixie! I've been reading your journal for a few months. I can't remember how I came across it but I want you to know that it inspired me to start my own blog at PantySniffer.blogcock.com. If you have time I'd love to hear what you think of it."

2. Tell me about yourself.
Tell me and show me who you are. If you send me a pic of your face and whatever else you want (many girls don't like "dick pics" but I do!), tell me a LITTLE bit about yourself (without writing a whole book) . . . . it will help me know you. I won't always remember every detail right away, but if you keep reminding me you'll have a better chance of sticking out in my mind than someone who doesn't share any information about him/herself.

3. Become a member.
I am definitely more likely to respond to you and pay attention to you if I know you are a member to my site or my boyfriend's site, TrixiesHouseboy.com. Correspondence from our members takes precedence over all others. I spend more time chatting with and emailing my members each week than I do talking to my friends, family, and colleagues all put together.

4. Consistently use the SAME NAME/HANDLE.
Every time you contact me or come into my chatroom, use the same handle. Many of you have different screen names, chatroom handles, different email addresses, real names, and member names. It's hard enough to keep everybody straight ESPECIALLY when each person has multiple aliases.

Whenever possible, use the SAME NICKNAME when you contact me. Whenever possible remind me of ALL of the names by which I might know you (for example, sign your emails with your real name AKA your username AKA your chat handle).

Ex. "Hi! This is your new member SNOOSECHEWER. My real name is Ted but you can call me BoneDaddy (that's the name I've been using in your chatroom)."

5. Remind me who you are.
Everytime you contact me or come into my chatroom, remind me of the last conversation we had, or a little bit about yourself (where you're from, etc.). You will probably have to repeat yourself a few times before I can remember you.

Ex. "This is your member Nutbuster aka Phillip and I was the guy who complimented you on your music selection. I'm also the one who fingerbanged his own asshole while I spied on you masturbating. Can't wait to hear what's on your stereo today!"

Eventually I will fondly tell you to shuttup, that I already know who you are and you don't have to remind me anymore ;).

6. Tell me what you like.
The more frequently you remind me of your own interests, the more I develop an idea of who you are. A great way to do this is to respond to what you see and hear on my spycams, what you read in my journal, and what you enjoy in my members-only area. For example, I tend to feel more connected to members who comment in my journal or regularly email me after each update to my site, telling me what they did and didn't like. This doesn't mean I always respond, but I do get to know you better this way.

7. Flatter me with research.
You can find out a lot about me by spying on me, attending my chat sessions, and reading my journal and the content on my site. I love answering thought provoking questions, but the truth is I do not have time for exhaustive interviews. I'm always flattered by people's interest, but shit . . . I just don't have time to type out answer after in-depth answer. You will get farther with me if you invest time thoroughly exploring all aspects of my site(s). Again, this may sound harsh but the amount of time you invest in getting to know me should always outweigh the amount of time I invest getting to know you. My site is not a giant personal ad and we will never be "partners". I am the webwhore and you are a fan. It's never going to be equal. We give each other different things.

8. Be patient.
It takes a long time to get to know and trust someone. It will be easier for you to get to know me, than for me to get to know you. Because of this our relationship will be lopsided. Realize that the closest relationships I've developed as a webwhore are with people who have held memberships to my site for a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time, bought private time with me, and have made regular efforts to write to me and drop in on my chat sessions even when I am not able to reciprocate. These people understand and respect my limits.

9. Be realistic.
My website is personally rewarding to me but it's also a business.

I know all of this probably sounds really harsh but I would rather prepare you for the "worst" than have you be disappointed. I work very hard and put my heart and soul into my websites. It takes many hours of work to make pictures and videos, write in my journal, hold chat sessions, design, market (and redesign) my sites, do video shows and phone sex, keep abreast of industry news, troubleshoot technical problems, learn about new software and equipment, pursue goals and ideas I'm excited about, and most importantly have time to just enjoy my life and relationship with Delia and my mom, sister, and long-time friends. I try to be emotionally present, genuine and honest in all that I do and believe all my members reap the benefits of my "realness".

I share myself in incredibly intimate ways through my site(s) . . . but realistically there is a limit to how much I can share. I usually find the boundaries of my ability when it comes to meeting people's desire for individual attention. I simply cannot offer many people individual attention. There just aren't enough hours in the day!

At the same time, I completely respect people who don't have time or money attempting to be my number one fan. You are under no obligation to me whatsoever and you do not owe me anything. I want you to enjoy my site in whatever way you wish and can afford (financially, emotionally and time-wise). You do not have to compliment me, share with me, thank me or spend time/money on me if you can't or don't want to. I do not think I am "worth" more than other people or that my time is more valuable than yours or anyone else's.

10. Buy one-on-one time with me.
If you want my time and exclusive attention, BUY IT in a webcam show or phone call. There are oodles of free stuff on my site but my individual attention is not something I can afford to give away for free to everyone who wants it; I just don't have the time.. It's that simple. If you are the type of person who assumes upon reading that statement that I am a money-grubber or that my primary motivation in life is money, you're the type of person I don't have time for and whose money I don't want anyway. I am in business for myself so that I don't have to kiss anyone's ass, not so I can spread myself thin trying to entertain every Tom, Dick and Harry for free. There are oodles of free stuff on my site but my individual attention is not something I give away for free. Deal with it.